Thursday, May 23, 2013

End of a Journey

Cap, Gown, Tassel, Diploma, announcements and party invites for William's graduation are in! This has really made things final. On June 8th he will graduate from our homeschool. WHAT A RIDE! When we started this journey 12 years ago we said we would take it year by year. Looking back, with in a month or two I knew that there would be no turning back. This experience has been life changing! Homeschooling William for the past 12 years has taught me more than anyone will ever know. Not only on a educational level but a personal level as well. I have learned things about my self and not all of those things were good things! Being with William day in and day out I would see things in his character that bugged me. After much thought and reflection I realized that he was learning those things from me! YIKES! What a big responsibility! On the other hand I would see him do great things with his life and see great qualities in him as well. That was a treat. I knew that the things that I had taught him were sinking in and those little moments made it all worth it. As I think back over the years I was suppose to be the one teaching William, yet he was really teaching me! Here are a few of the things that he taught me. Patience- Ok so I am still working on that some days (Emma is in the 2nd grade, so I have 10 more years to perfect that LOL) I am sure that William will say I need lots of work on that one, especially after our 9th grade physical science course and ANY TIME he saw a fraction or decimal in math! Debate- This guy can argue with a stop sign, AND WIN! He never backs down and is always ready to prove his point. I hope that this skill will serve him well in the future. We wants go in to the political field so I am sure that it will.

Computers- I know how to do most of things that I want to do on the computer but if I ever had a problem I knew where to turn. William was always ready to help me out but he would never just do the things I needed. He would tell me, and make me work on it step by step until I got it right! Such a great teacher, right. Guess he learned from the best. What "school" is- As a child I really did not enjoy school. School was a chunk of my day where I was forced to learn what others thought I should learn and graded me on those things. I did not always do well so that cause much stress. William has taught me that school is not something that you can put in a box and just "do". We truly are learning all the time. I have learned to love "school" and I now love to learn new things! Music Appreciation- William listens to a wide variety of music. Some good and some not so good :) He has taught me to be tolerant of his music choices and I have taught him to tolerate mine. We each have found that we agree on some of those selections and noting beats a good 80's music jam session in the car, especially when he uses his cell phone as his mic! Music class on my watch has to include a little of my favorite group of all times, New Kids on the Block. William has learned that his mama has mad skills when it come to rapping and he just LOVES to hear me rap and sing all of my favorite childhood song. (NOT) Yes, music class is always fun! Character- William has taught me not to judge others. He has the biggest heart.

To be believe in my self- When I had no idea if I could continue this journey, he would tell me that I was the best mother ever! He praised me and let me know that homeschooling was the right choice and that we could do this TOGETHER!

"Experts" and well meaning people in society DO NOT KNOW IT ALL- Through out this journey we have been hit with much negativity and advise for EVERY WHERE! William has taught me that at the end of the day NONE of that matters! You must look inside your self and do what is right for YOU! You can not live your life for anyone else. You must make choices that will make you happy and the rest will fall in line.

Just do it- William has taught me to plan less and do more. If you spend all your time planning you never have time to do the things that you want. He has taught me to jump right in and just go for it!

Be a team player- There is a big age gap between William and his sisters, 8 and 10 years, to be exact. Some of the field trips and activities that have taken part in over the years have often been below his level, he never once complained and joined in with a happy heart. This meant a lot to me as his teacher and his sisters will have so many memories of the good times they had learning side by side with him.

Make you own happy- You can not count on others to make you happy, you create your own happiness! Run with that!

As we come to the end of this journey I hope that I have been able to impact William's life in a positive manner. I pray that he will look back on our times together with fond memories and much love. Gone are the days that we would head to the library, curl up on the corner couch and read together all day. We still frequent the library, he just heads for political books and I am often searching for our next unit study topic. I am thankful that he still enjoys being with me and I think that is a great testament of the time that I have invested in his life. Has this been an easy road? By NO MEANS!!! But I can say that it has been worth it all!

Congratulations William. I love you and I am proud of you and your many accomplishments.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Earthworms - Speedy Lapbook by Homeschool Bits Review

Spring has sprung in our neck of the woods are we enjoying exploring nature together. One of the animals that we wanted to learn about was earthworms. This is the perfect product to get us started! If you are new to lapbooks, have no fear. Helpful links as well as photos are included to help you understand how they are put together. The download has everything that you need to get started. Lapbook pieces, background information, as well as fun internet links for hands on fun are all at your fingertips! You can add in other resources if you want to but it's great on it's on! Great value! We enjoyed this product and will look for more of these products to enhance our unit studies. This is our completed lapbook: